by Erik Dolson
“Fixing” is fun for me. That’s a good thing because I’m living on a boat. But it can be a strength or a weakness, especially when it’s hard to let go and do something else. A little ADHD.
Okay, a lot of ADHD. But I compensate. Continue reading Fixer
By Erik Dolson
Irish talks about fear. She fell, crushed half her face and lost her right eye. Of course she fears going back on the boat. No job and savings wiped out by divorce, she fears medical bills, as do many in much better shape.
She fears for our relationship. After losing her job, the day before she fell, she asked me if I “could still love an unemployed miscreant.” Her question was not out of the blue. This isn’t the first time Irish and I had been together.
Continue reading Fear 3.0
by Jane Miller
My world exploded on Thursday, but the fuse was ignited on Monday when I was fired from my job. I had more than half expected it, work was a toxic environment at best, but the finality of it was daunting.
Erik was determined to keep my spirits up though, and we set off on a walkabout. Being in Victoria with him, being on the boat with him, just being with him made me irrepressibly happy. I was afraid, though, what this change in employment and finances would bring to our relationship. My voice shook as I nervously asked him if he could still date an unemployed miscreant who couldn’t hold down a job. I had learned long ago that there were perils to asking a question to which one did not know the answer.
Continue reading Irish: Pain, and Fear